Service

Time is passing us by. Some cherished memories seem like yesterday, and some are fading.

In the rush of daily life, it's easy to lose sight of what matters most. The most valuable investment of our time is in relationships, especially with family. These connections are the backbone of our support system and the source of life's core moments. Whether through a family dinner, a weekend outing, or sharing stories before bedtime, these moments strengthen bonds and create cherished memories that last a lifetime.

My mom played a crucial role in nurturing my artistic interests during my childhood. When bored, she would encourage me to draw, providing me with pencils, and paper to doodle on. As I grew older, I did a couple of sketches of Christ that unexpectedly resonated with many people.

Beyond our immediate circles, there are those in need around us – friends, neighbors, or strangers who could benefit from our time and compassion. Acts of kindness, no matter how small, can make a significant impact. Maybe it's volunteering at a local food bank, helping someone move, or simply being there for someone going through a tough time. The time we invest in others has a butterfly effect for good that extends far beyond us.

In realms unseen by immediate gaze, Dwell those in need, life's intricate maze. Friends, neighbors, strangers, silently plea, In compassion's embrace, a butterfly sets free. Acts of grace, as petals gently dance, Evoke ripples, a rhythmic trance. Volunteering, a touch, a gentle rhyme, Waves of goodwill transcend space and time. Invested time, compassion so pure, Creates a haven where kindness endures. In the symphony of service, echoes reflect, The timeless grace of the butterfly effect.

In the pursuit of a meaningful life, it's crucial to carve out time for uplifting hobbies. Engaging in good activities that bring joy not only serves as self-improvement but also radiates positive energy to those around us. Could be a creative endeavor, playing a sport, or immersing in a good hobby, these activities enrich our lives and will inspire others.

However, social media, with its endless scrolling and innate comparisons, often diverts attention without purpose. It invites procrastination and contention, and hinders personal and professional growth. Excessive video games, television, and streaming contribute to many hours lost in mindless consumption, offering minimal value. Finding healthy moderation and balance is key to reclaiming time for more purposeful pursuits.

It's also important to allocate time for spiritual nourishment. Making time for God is a state of being; it's self-discovery and connection with the Almighty! Reflecting on His hand in your life through prayerful meditation will provide clarity, peace, and a sense of purpose that transcends any challenge we face. It's a time to be still, listen, and feel His love.

Space and time are not linear for God. He knows all His creations. Through His infinite everlasting power and love, He makes an instance in time for each of us at any moment.

Emulating this divine example, we can prioritize what truly matters by allocating time to relationships, those in need, uplifting activities, and spiritual well-being. Time is precious, and how we spend it reflects our values. Make time for what matters most.

Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

Whether you are driving, studying, playing, praying, etc... "Be present."

Being present is embracing the beauty and stillness of the current moment. A zen approach that takes intentional focus. Not always easy in everyday life. We shed the weight of our inner chatter and fully immerse ourselves in the here and now. This allows us to connect with the essence of life, becoming attuned to our environment, emotions, and people around us. Ultimately finding a sense of fulfillment and contentment to replace worry and fear.

Being present naturally inspires us. It opens us to fresh ideas, insights, and creative sparks. With heightened awareness, we uncover opportunities and solutions that might otherwise go unnoticed. Furthermore, being present fosters a deeper relationship with our Father in Heaven. In the stillness of these moments, we create space for spiritual awareness and reflection, drawing us closer to Him. These are the moments when I can see His hand in my life.

Being present doesn't end with us; it extends to how we serve others. When we're present, we're better able to touch the lives of those around us. By listening and truly connecting with people, we offer our undivided attention, making them feel valued and loved. When listening, it is easy to get distracted by our perceived solutions rather than the person we are focusing on. Listen with empathy, not judgment.

Being present in service is a powerful tool for spreading God's compassion and empathy. It allows us to offer our comfort, prayer, and hope to those in need. Small acts of kindness, like a warm smile or a helping hand, can have a big impact on someone's day, spreading the message of Christ in everyday interactions.

Serving others with a present heart allows God to work through us. Using our unique gifts to bring a transformation for good to those we serve and realigning our spiritual compass.

Being present is a gift to ourselves and a shining light to others, a pathway to inspiration, a means to connect with God, The Source of Truth. As we embrace the now, we not only transform our own lives but also become instruments of God's love in our chaotic world. Strive to be present, and let it show in your service to others.

Be still, and know that I am God.

Remember, today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.

Heavenly Father listens to all our prayers. We should listen to His inspiration and to those around us. Does not mean we should try to fix or judge them, just listen.

Finding a place to live fresh from college was challenging, especially as a dime-a-dozen graphic designer. One apartment offered a finished attic crawl space bedroom with shared common areas. I could not fully stand up in my bedroom, but only paid $80/mo, utilities included. Eventually, I moved to a 3-person rental, each with their own room. One roommate was open and talkative, while the other kept to himself. Always looking down as he scurried by. After a while, this shy roommate started asking me what I did for work, where I was from, etc. It was almost like a background check, although still guarded about his life.

Over the next couple of months, we all hung out a few times and found things in common to laugh about. Finally, the shy one opened up to me in confidence about how he was making ends meet. I listened without judgment. I thanked him for trusting me, and his secret was safe. After his reveal, our discussions became more analytical. Pros and Cons. Helping him understand his future if he kept this path. It was grim. Was the risk worth it? He had to make up his mind. He was an insecure kid, searching for guidance.

After my lease ended, I moved out. Never had any arguments, just found a much better location I could not pass up. Two years later, I was visiting a friend's church far from where I lived. As I entered the foyer, I heard my name. Some happy dude gave me a bro hug and asked if I remembered him. I did not recognize him. He pulled me aside and said "After you left our apartment, I thought more about our Pros and Cons list. It was not worth the risk anymore. Thanks for listening." I was blown away at how my shy ex-roommate cleaned up his life, and his countenance showed it. I had no clue I made a difference.

God inspired me to live in that apartment for a time. And He inspired me when to leave. I am glad I listened.

And other sheep I have, which are not of this fold: them also I must bring.

Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.

We all make our own choices. It is called free will. We serve others by showing respect for different approaches to life.

I've been flipping around at dances before breakdancing was a thing. At high school dances, I could bust a back or front flip out of any dance move. Press handstand twist down to leg circle variations. If the crowd created a lane, I would do a full tumbling pass. At college, I was flipping off stages. Blacked out an entire lit dance floor by doing a back layout. It was called "break" dancing. So many bruises.

Then he arrived. The spotlight shifted to an amazing pop-lock master, in a hat. His whole dance style was mesmerizing. No flashy acrobatics, just natural physical talent that obeyed every beat. He would take the front floor, and I would take the main floor. It was on. We knew without looking whose turn it was to take the spotlight. He would do a full sequence of pop-lock poetry, I would do an acrobatic interpretation, with some basic pop-lock thrown in.

Over time, he nodded at me, I nodded at him. An unspoken detente of respect and admiration for each artist.

Even though the crowd changed from week to week, our battle was to command the crowd... a challenge welcomed by both. No one judged, but we knew who won each night. Our friend groups and lifestyles were totally different. There was never any mutual aggression, only genuine respect. One was not better than the other, only different styles. Each elevated the other to get better.

By lifting each other up and avoiding contention, we become peacemakers. Someone that respects God-given free will, refraining from imposing judgment. If others are interested in why your light shines bright, they will hear you. Contention is not of God. Love your neighbor as God loves you. God's love is pure empathy that fills our souls with good. Focus on our common goals and accomplishments as one family in Christ. There is only one Judge.

Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.

Peace is not the absence of conflict, it is the ability to handle conflict by peaceful means.

Sometimes it is not always clear, but if we are willing to be open to the promptings of the Holy Ghost, we will be guided to the right place at the right time. But are we ready to serve? Are we ready to be served?

During a recent business trip, I was finally hunkered down in a crowded airport, plugged in, ready to face a long layover. A few minutes later, I looked up and saw an elderly lady, with a slight limp, briskly pushing her wheelchair. I felt prompted to help her. So I unplugged, and about halfway to her - I froze. I saw airport officials standing nearby who should help her. Or since she was almost at her terminal, was she pushing her wheelchair for exercise?

As I started to walk back to my seat without intervening, I heard a sound I will never forget.

The disabled lady I was going to help had fallen flat, face down. If I had the courage to simply follow my prompting, she would not be lying there. The nearby airport officials got to her before I could. I remember the walk of shame back to my seat felt like an eternity. Somebody, who I will call "Clarence", slowly shook his head at me as I walked by. I felt devastated.

The next day at the crowded business convention, l saw a very pregnant lady carrying a large box with a line of children trailing her. It seemed redemption was at hand. I eagerly ran over and offered to help. "Let me carry that box for you." Courage was at 100%. As I reached out to save her from impending injury to her and her unborn child, she said "No. I am good. The box is empty." Then they hurried off.

But as I walked back this time, I felt great. This time I acted like a true follower of Jesus. Not all may want our help, but we should try.

And David said to Solomon his son, Be strong and of good courage, and do it: fear not, nor be dismayed: for the Lord God, even my God, will be with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee, until thou hast finished all the work for the service of the house of the Lord.

It takes courage to be kind.